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Spiritual Formation Ministry

As we have prayed about and discerned the focus of Spiritual Formation ministry at FBC, four powerful pillars have emerged as undergirding the work that is before us. These words capture four truths we need to understand and

embrace at the core of our being.

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We are...

BELOVED

We are all made in the image of God and nothing can separate us from God’s love.

TETHERED

We are connected to God at the core of our being and can be in a relationship with God.

FORGIVEN

We are called to receive and to offer the forgiveness that has already been given to us.

WHOLE

Our brokenness does not define or diminish us. The lovely and the unlovely of our lives are held gently in the hands of the One who makes all things new.

Upcoming Events

  • Prayer of Examen
    Prayer of Examen
    Multiple Dates
    Mon, Aug 25
    Zoom Link Provided Upon Registration
    Aug 25, 2025, 8:00 AM – 9:00 AM
    Zoom Link Provided Upon Registration
    The prayer of Examen is an Ignatian practice that helps us to become attentive to God’s movement in our lives. In prayer we go back over a period of time in our lives; maybe the last 24 hours, or the last week, and notice where we felt God’s presence, or absence.
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  • Where is God When the Floods Hit: A Dialogue on Open & Relational Theology with Dr. Thomas Jay Oord
    Where is God When the Floods Hit: A Dialogue on Open & Relational Theology with Dr. Thomas Jay Oord
    Sep 03, 2025, 6:15 PM – 8:00 PM
    FBC Activity Center | Smith Hall, 1939 Independence Blvd, Wilmington, NC 28403, USA
    Join us on Wednesday, September 3rd as we host professor and author, Dr. Thomas Jay Oord, for an evening of rich conversation and theological reflection.
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  • Beloved Retreat
    Beloved Retreat
    Tue, Sep 23
    St. Francis Springs Prayer Center
    Sep 23, 2025, 12:00 PM – Sep 25, 2025, 12:00 PM
    St. Francis Springs Prayer Center, 477 Grogan Rd, Stoneville, NC 27048, USA
    The cost is $260 per person for a double occupancy room and $300 per person for a single room. All meals from Friday dinner through Sunday breakfast are included, as well as transportation by church vans. Led by Barrett Owen & Jayne Davis
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  • FBC Women’s Retreat – Save the Date!
    FBC Women’s Retreat – Save the Date!
    Sat, Feb 21
    Feb 21, 2026, 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM
    Plaza on Princess, 410 Princess St, Wilmington, NC 28401, USA
    “Savor! – Embracing the Moment We’re In” Saturday, February 21st, 9am-3pm, Plaza on Princess (downtown) More information coming later this year.
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Retreats & Weekenders

‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 

Matthew 22:37-39

The goal of spiritual formation ministry is that we become people who love. People who love God and others and themselves generously, compassionately, sacrificially, and wholeheartedly. People who love like Jesus.

To love well, we need to be people who pay attention to what God is doing and wants to be doing, in us and around us. That’s why retreats are so important.

Retreats help us to create space in our lives away from the noise and the busyness where we can stop, breathe, and rest. They provide space for us to listen for God, to understand our own thoughts, and for God to breathe new life into us.

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Enneagram

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What is the Enneagram?

The Enneagram is a powerful tool for increasing our awareness and understanding of ourselves and others. It is an ancient resource that helps us to understand how our personalities are shaped, what motivates our behavior, and how to get out of our own way. It also offers a rich path for the soul work needed to love God, ourselves, and others more.

If you have questions, feel free to contact Jayne Davis. Check the website,

E-connect, and Kingdom News for registration openings.

Once you know your Enneagram type...

2024 Enneagram
Type Cohorts

TBD

Each of the nine Enneagram ego types will have a cohort that meets once a month to talk about ways they are noticing their type in their thought patterns and behaviors. It is an opportunity to share stories about Integration and Disintegration in strength and stress, ways you are learning to be more present, and areas where you’re struggling to do so. Most cohorts will meet by Zoom but some will meet in-person. These cohorts are open to anyone who has a basic understanding of their Enneagram type.

The Harmonic Triads & Relationships

TBD

FBC Activity Center

Enneagram types belong to triads in addition to the Centers of Intelligence. The Harmonic Triads group Enneagram types by how they cope with conflict and difficulty – the Positive Outlook Group (2s, 7s & 9s), the Competency Group (1s, 3s & 5s), and the Reactive Group (4s, 6s & 8s). This two-hour workshop will explore these Harmonic Triads and ways they can help navigate conflict in relationships. Participation in the Introduction to the Enneagram seminar or a working understanding of one’s Enneagram Ego Type is necessary for this seminar.

Enneagram
Coaching

Monthly coaching calls for those who would like to engage in a six-month Enneagram coaching process. For those who understand their Enneagram type and would like to work through particular areas of struggle or growth. Limited spaces available. Contact Jayne Davis.

Rev. Jayne Davis

Associate Pastor Discipleship

Before joining the FBC staff in 2001, I was the Executive Director for the New Hanover County Partnership for Children (Smart Start), Good Shepherd House Administrative Director and Coalition for the Homeless (NYC) Assistant Director. I am married to Wes Davis. We have four children, Kayla, Christian, Meredith, and Annie.

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